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SE Asia in a Nutshell: Part 2

Ho Chi Minh City / Saigon

Saigon snapped me back into the mode of car dodging. The bustling city and flash night life was starting to draw on me, and the more active days with calm nights was a relief. Our first day of exploring took us into the Mekong Delta where we saw islands that were dedicated to different productions. One for coconut, one for honey, another for crafts. We were able to try fresh coconut candy, and were offered snake wine.

Snake wine, as some may know, is a harsh liquor that resembles cheap whisky. The triangular bottle houses bits of ginger root and a snake with a scorpion in its mouth. And it tastes exactly like what it sounds like. Sharp, spicy and strong.

Continuing on, we went to another island where we were paddled down a river in the small traditional wooden Can Tho small boats. We were making our way through the bamboo lined river when we noticed that all of the boats that were passing us in the opposite direction were waving at us and pointing to folded dong (the currency) in their hand. It took us a few boats to realise that they were signalling that we were supposed to tip our driver. If there is one thing I learned in Vietnam, nothing is free. Thankfully it’s all very cheap.

Cambodia – Phnom Penh

 

 We drove for about 8 hours the next day, which included the boarder crossing into Cambodia. The crossing was new for me, since we were coming in by coach and everyone on the bus had to give their passports to the bus driver who would give them to the customs official when we stopped. We had to take our valuable items off the bus and went into a large concrete ware-house looking building with the customs desks at the far end. We waited patiently as the customs official handed our passports back to our tour guide, who would call us forward and direct us to the bus that had moved forward to the buildings’ exit. I was nervous, as would anyone would be who has grown up knowing that it’s not the safest to part with your passport, especially in another country. Tom Tom, our guide, did a great job of reassuring us and definitely made the border crossing experience a quick and easy one. In Phnom Penh, we spent a day at the S21 prison and Killing fields.

 

Warning: the following may not be suitable for children to read. It was tough to visit. It was tough to write.

 

The bloody history of the Kumar Rouge regime is an unpublicised holocaust. The regime had gone around to the neighbouring areas and ‘recruited’ anyone who had a skill other than farming, knowing they would be a threat to the power of the Kumar Rouge. Trades people, and especially doctors and teachers, all brought to the prison under false pretence of jobs and a better life. Extending their reach, they decided to take whole families. After all a child could grow up to seek revenge. After being relocated to the S21 prison that was converted out of an old high school when the city of Phnom Penh had been deserted, the few remaining locals were resettled in neighbourhoods away from the school, and the screams. Millions of people were killed in that era. There were only eleven survivors; seven prisoners of the S21 prison, and four additional children who were smuggled and hiding in the kitchen. The others that were in the prison were executed quickly once the Kumar Rouge realised they were going to loose power, and took many of their prisoners the ten minute drive to the killing fields. The prison is renovated in some areas to show what it looked like before. Another area was converted to a museum area. And the last was left just as it was found, down to the occasional bloodstain. If the holocaust museum was built at Auschwitz, I imagine the tone would be close.

The killing fields, which are still not fully excavated, reveal bone and clothes after forty years. While walking along the raised boardwalk that winds through the fields, bones and bullets can be found within a foot on either side. In the middle of the field is a large memorial, where the skulls are displayed on shelves that create an encased pillar in the middle of the room, about 10X10 feet (3X3 meters).

I studied physical anthropology in my undergrad and we were able to work with bones of mummies that had been donated to the university. We learned how to determine gender, age, and certain causes of death that could be seen in bones. By the second panel of bones in the killing fields, I didn’t need to read the plaque. Adult, 25- 30, female, shot in the middle of her forehead. The next side of the pillar – children and under 20’s, some with their skulls not completely fused. After all, that only happens if you get the chance to grow up.

The history is dark, and for a few hours you feel any happiness sucked from you. Because of this repetition of history, I think if you are passing through Cambodia, you need to visit. Not because I want you to feel helpless to the carnage of the past, but because I really want people to remember, and not do insane atrocities again. At the least, the museum area has photos that the Kumar rouge had taken for records, which were the last many of the people had while they were alive. Personally, I like to learn about them so that they are not forgotten.

 Me with one of the 7 survivors of S21, Chum Mey, selling autographed copies of his book “survivor”.

Siem Reap

 

Right. Back to the fun, not-so-depressing stuff!

 

We drove in a small private bus from Phnom Penh to Siem Reap, stopping for a brief break at a roadside stand that specialized in a wide selection of deep fried creepy-crawlies. Of course, this is where my adventurous palette and I stepped up to the plate and ordered a tarantula and a few crickets. I have to say it – the tarantula tasted like chicken. It’s true. Like over fried, a little dry, crispy-breaded chicken. The crickets? Well, they just tasted like cricket. Not exciting in flavour other than the spices that it was cooked with. Just remember to take off the legs and wings, or you might find yourself with a cricket getting caught in your throat half-way down.


The next two days were spent at the Angkor Wat temple complex.

The first day we left the hotel at 4 am, clambering into the bus to go get our ticket and venture to the temple to watch the sunrise. As we made our way through the dark, I couldn’t even see the faint outline of any buildings. The new moon left the sky pitch black, with only a blanket of stars and plants to tell where – approximately – the sky ended and the horizon began. As the sun came up, the sky turned a faint pink, and the reflection created a magnificent silhouette of temple and palm trees against the dark plum of the cool morning sky.

Inside the temple walls we watched the sun rise, reflected in the small ponds that were originally built as water throughs for elephants. (Transport for the elite.)


The main temple was originally constructed with a mixture of Hindu and Buddhist architecture, and was meant as a communal worshiping place for both religions. There are monks that still practice here too.


The next temple we went to was the Bayon, also known as the face a temple. Each of the many rooftops has one face per a side, built to face the four directions. In the temple you can explore the maze of ruins, taking photos in the windows and has fewer visitors. The faces in the tops of the towers are kind of fun too.


We next visited the “Tomb Raider” temple, where the film was mainly shot, but between the heat and fighting a large crowd of people to get any photos, within an hour we were ready to move on.

 


The last temple we visited was “the hospital”, which was on an island that could only be reached by walking along a narrow wooden boardwalk above a bog. In Ancient times, they believed that the body ran off the four elements; fire, earth, wind, and water. The ‘hospital’ was five intricately carved stone pools, four on the outside and one large one in the middle. When you were sick, a medicine man would determine which of your elements was ‘missing’ and you would be ritually bathed in the coordinating pool to make you healthy again. If you were really close to death, you would be considered missing most of your elements and would be bathed in the large pool in the canter.


Our last night in Siem Reap, as part of our tour, we were taken to dinner at the New Hope restaurant. The New Hope Restaurant was created to give women working in sex work the opportunity to learn new skills and create a new life for themselves. The foundation grew and built a school that teaches English, a required skill for all the hospitality jobs. This was something that was organised as part of our GAdventures trip, and was amazing to be able to support.

 

Fun fact: The elephant ponds at the main temple of the Angkor Wat complex were converted temporarily into a ‘fishing village’ in 2001 for the movie Tomb Raider. Restaurants in town still have their menus tagged with dishes that Angelina Jolie ordered when they were filming in Cambodia. The temple where they did most of the filming, the one with the trees growing into and around the buildings, is actually very small and very crowded. Be ready to have to fight your way through a crowd at any of the major temple sites.

 

The smaller “face temple”, or the Bayon, is massively underrated, and really worth a visit.

 

Thiland – Bangkok

Bangkok provided us with our amazing race experience to the Wat Pho, the 600 foot Buddha statue.


We thought it closed to the public at 5 pm. We arrived at our hotel by bus at 4, so four of us girls ran down and grabbed a tuk tuk. The guy said that he couldn’t get there because of construction and we would need to take a boat. He brought us to the ferry terminal and the boat man (who obviously knew him) waves us over and tries charging us $40 for a boat ride that we knew should have been $3 each at most. We talk him down to $7 each and then instead of taking the water bus, he flags down a “water taxi” which is one of the long skinny traditional boats. Note: It doesn’t do well on waves and every time we hit a wake I thought the boat was going to break in two. When we pull up to the dock and there is a lengthy line for the water bus that we had originally planed on. We realized that the little boat may have been the best option, as now it is 4:45 and Wat Pho closes at 5 PM, we had to hurry. There was a dock hand that was helping the long skinny boats dock then you had to pay a “docking fee” which was just another way to rip off tourists. We paid it just wanting to get out of there and get to the Wat before it closed and took off in the general direction. We made it to the main crossroads by a government building, and start to question our sense of direction. Thankfully many of the buildings in the cities are guarded by armed guards and we figured “Lets ask the men with the machine guns for directions”. They smiled and told us that it was just around the block “down and to the left”, so we took off in that direction. We reached the next corner where once again we couldn’t find Wat pho, so we ask another set of armed guards. They also tell us “Down and to the left”, so we continue on to the opposite corner of the complex from where we started, but arrived at 4:55. Frantic, we tried finding an entrance where we can get a couple pictures before getting kicked out, and I saw the open sign that displayed “hours 8am to 6pm”. We had a whole hour before it closed.


Inside the complex, there were several structures covered in a tile mosaics that made me think of something out of Willy Wonka. The big temple that houses the reclining Buddha is MASSIVE. The outside is stark white, while inside is reds and gold leaf decoration. The statue itself was gold, and hard to take in at any one location in the temple.


We wondered around the complex, and a group of the monks were just ending their prayers for the day and wondering around as well. When it was time to go we walked out the front door, and there was a tuk tuk that was able to bring us back to the door of our hotel… no construction to cause delays.

 

Chiang Mai

 

In Bangkok our groups parted ways. My ticket home was booked out of Chiang Mai, and I had no choice but to go look around. Still hesitant about traveling alone, I found that one of my fantastic new friends from the tour was also headed north to Chiang Mai, and we were going to meet a few days later.

While traveling through Cambodia, I discovered that Tom Tom, our guide, was from Chiang Mai and asked her for any advice about doing things and getting out on some adventures.  She told me about an Elephant riding outfit that she recommended because they take care of their elephants, saying there are cheaper programs, but she wont vouch for the treatment of the elephants. (Elephants are the SE Asian equivalent to work horses, there is still much debate about the ethics in riding them. Not to worry, there are a number of tour companies in Chiang Mai that offer elephant programs where you don’t ride the elephant, and still get to feed, bathe and pet it.) I was also advised that riding bareback is easiest on the elephants rather than riding with “saddles”, much easier for the elephants to handle and get used to, and can be trained through rewards. (FYI, They love bananas.) The program we went on took us hiking to a waterfall, where we were given samples of edible plants along the way. When the guide, had a large ant trying to bite his thumb, I pointed it out, and he shrugged casually and said “Its an ant.” And ate it. We stopped for a more substantial meal after the waterfall and had a local lunch of a yellow chicken curry on rice. Another part of the tour was to visit the Hilltribe people. They are part of the same overarching tribe as the long necks, though the practice of waring rings on their neck is dyeing out.

Originally there was the belief that members of the tribe born during a full moon would be more likely to be attacked by a tiger, and since tigers will attack the throat, tribes people originally wrapped their necks in rattan. As rattan is easy for teeth to get through, the tribes people switched to copper rings, which would offer more protection against tiger attacks. The practice is fading out because of the dwindling tiger populations, and the fading of superstition that your chances of being attacked coordinate with the lunar cycle you were born under.

If you want to guarantee seeing the long neck tribes people, there are settlements that the Thai government established for tourism.

We continued into the forest to a farm where we rode elephants bareback for about an hour around the property. We walked down to the small creek where we were the elephants could swim, and then back to the farm.  Before leaving our elephants we spent some time just walking with them, feeding them bananas as treats. Finishing off the day, we did some bamboo rafting down a river that was cool, and quiet.


Another aspect of what I have found to be deemed “questionable tourism” is tiger photos. I have heard of the Tiger Temple, which is notorious for drugging and abusing its tigers. So I researched, did some asking around and homework, and found another outfit – Tiger Kingdom – which is more popular for its cub photos, because they have a lot of restrictions on who is allowed to take photos with the larger tigers. Given the size and nature, and the lack of information surrounding the larger tigers, there is speculation as to if the tigers are drugged.  The cubs however, were jumping and playing and each had 2 handlers on standby, with all of our moves guided by the handlers of what to do and when.  Since this was a bucket list item, I brought my camera and got to spend a bit of time playing with some tiger cubs. When my travel buddy and I left the enclosure, we just looked at each other and asked “did that really just happen?”

Singapore

When traveling to and to and from the field school/Chiang Mai I flew in and out of Singapore. With a 9-hour layover on the way to Vietnam, I had booked a hostel in the city, and decided I was going to use my time wisely sight-seeing.

I was sitting at my gate in the Brisbane airport when I hear a familiar voice call my name. It was one of my classmates that, I admit, I didn’t hang out with very much outside of class. She and I discover that we were on the same flights, and I invited her to join me at my hostel if she was up for the adventure. She agreed and we navigated out of customs, (thankfully for both US and Australian passports, you do not need to apply for a tourist visa,) grabbed some fast food, and caught the bus that was hostel bound.

We checked in, dropped our stuff, and hailed a taxi to the Gardens by the Bay. The gardens have large greenhouse pavilions and a walkway through the manmade industrial trees, but they both close at 8 pm. We ventured along the walkways, finding an outdoor aquarium, and vantage points of the clusters of large plant-like structures. Lit in a neon blue, the structures resembled giant trees that mushroomed at the top, greenery growing up the sides, and white spots of light doted the tops like stars. A few hours of wondering around the gardens and it was time to attempt a few hours sleep before our morning flight to Vietnam.


 
On the way back from Thailand, again I had a lengthy layover. This time seven hours. Singapore airport has won multiple awards as the “Best airport in the world”. I took the time to wonder around and find what the hype was about.

The airport has a hotel, public pool, two movie theatres, a game centre, free Internet, free massage chairs, and so much more. Gym? Yup. Butterfly garden with a waterfall? You bet. I find myself wondering if I can book an international flight back just to visit the airport.

 

 

SE Asia in a Nutshell: Part 1

Studying in Australia gives a few unique opportunities. For me, it included the chance to do field school through Vietnam, where we were privileged to work with some amazing people learning how the museum ‘does-what-it-does’.

However, outside of class I wasn’t expecting to see or do much, as my mental preparation had my mind thinking “business trip” rather than “vacation”. Those who know how I travel know that every moment I’m not trying to be a good student is spent exploring. (After all, I use academia as my excuse to go far away for long periods of time.) As South East Asia is in the news frequently for tourists getting in accidents, trafficking, or other not-so-pleasurable happenings, I didn’t think I would go there on my own, no matter how much solo experience I have. Two of my classmates who were also going to Vietnam agreed and the three of us decided to book a tour and continue through Cambodia and Thailand after our studies.

 

Vietnam – Hanoi

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We started our two-week field school in Hanoi. The old quarter burst with life, vendors, pedestrians, and mopeds. Oh-so-many mopeds. The air was thick from humidity and exhaust in the narrow streets. The buildings, with their un-kept paint and traditional wood trimmings, towered multiple stories on either side. The ground floor housed open-front shops and restaurants with smiling and eager staff trying to wave you in for business.

Walking along the streets, also be careful of taking pictures. We dubbed the women with the carrying baskets the “banana ladies” and developed the motto “beware of the banana ladies”. Within an hour of arriving in Hanoi I experienced my first of the photo cons. We were making our way to our hotel when a banana lady saw me taking photos and before I could get away, put her carrying stick on my shoulder and traditional hat on my head and kept pressing for me to take a picture. Me in my travellers hope that she just wanted to share her culture (after all that’s been my experience in most other third worlds) I passed my camera to my mate and had her snap the photo. As soon as the shutter snapped Banana Lady took back her gear and I thanked her and started to walk on now that she was, what I thought was obviously, done with me. That’s when she started yelling at me that I owed her 2 dollars. Ah hah! The next two weeks we had to deal with ladies following us down the street trying to put their carrying sticks on us as we would wiggle out from under them and continue on. Beware of the banana ladies.

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Each street in Hanoi is delegated to different wares – tin, copper, glass, etc – and if there is something in particular you need, you can find shops competing on the same street.

Food alley, while more expensive than the other shops that reside on another street, offers a multitude of options. In the heart of the city, the favourite of the field school was the Lantern Lounge, which could be identified easily at night by the plethora of lanterns that ornamented the face of the building. Once inside, you take of your shoes and sit traditional style at a table that is lit by many more paper lanterns draped across the ceiling. With free wifi and delicious vegetarian options in an English menu, we decided it was worth multiple visits. (When I travel I try to eat more vegetarian friendly because meat is usually harder to come by, and not always guaranteed fresh. So my rule of thumb is if you can’t read the local menu, don’t order anything unless you know what it is. I like to eat seafood in coastal towns, but since seafood can be temperamental I stay away from it if I have travelled more than two hours away from the shore.)

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Another Hanoi specialty I highly recommend is the Egg coffee. It is the superhero of cappuccinos. A thickly whipped, sweet egg white topping layered on a cup coffee. That is a dissert in itself.

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The Adventure to see Uncle Ho

 

While in Hanoi, morbid curiosity came over a few of my fellow classmates and I to visit the man we had learned so much about through our museum visits. After all, most of the museums in Vietnam display Ho Chi Minh as a larger than life demigod rather than the ruler of a country. His mausoleum is in Hanoi, and free to the public. Just remember the standard temple rule, dress modest, don’t lug giant bags in, and add that they don’t like you to take photos. That’s fine with me, I’m not too keen on photographing corpses, but the balmy heatwave in north Vietnam meant that one of my classmates and myself had worn shorts, which would have prevented us from getting past the many guards that were on the lookout for tourists that may be there to disrespect their highly regarded leader.

Once at the back of the 3 block line, we left our fellow classmates to find something to throw on over our shorts. The first shop we came across sold us a scarf to wear as a sarong and a pair of flow-y pants. We re-joined our classmates and continued through the line and past the video screens playing videos and testimony to “Uncle Ho”. When entering the mausoleum, you walk up stairs through small winding passages, designed to keep the climate-controlled room cool. Once in the room the whole experience felt surreal. The man in the open crypt in the middle of the room was stark white – no doubt due to multiple trips to be embalmed – and what interested me more than the marble looking man was the visitors that shuffled their way through with us. One older lady in front of us had streams of tears as she looked at him, and was offered tissues by who I assume was her grown daughter. Another man looked on in awe. I thought it was strange. It was strange to see how someone who has been long dead was displayed for the sake of his memory, and even stranger seeing the reactions to it. It was strange all around, but then, I’m not visiting embalmed leaders of countries every day.

 

Ha Long Bay

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Though we stayed at a hotel for the duration of our field school, the trip I took to Ha Long Bay I booked a side trip through the FlipSIde Hostel. They were very friendly and if I were to do it again, I would stay there rather than our hotel. Options for Ha Long bay tours vary, but there is one for those who are just “passing through” and want a day trip to Ha Long Bay.

We left the hostel at 8 am, taking a small private bus about 4 hours to the bay, with a quick stop at a craft shop where all the craftwork is made by disabled locals. Once at the bay, we boarded a small motorised wooden cruise launch. A lunch spread of fresh seafood from the bay, with other additions, was provided for us to enjoy while leaving the harbour. In the bay, the sea cliffs rise straight out of the water, creating a maze of scenery.

 

Fun fact: James Bond “Tomorrow Never Dies” was filmed here.

 

Fun fact: Ha Long means ‘descending dragon in Vietnamese

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Our boat pulled into a little fishing village where we kayaked in a small bay area that connects to a couple saltwater pools via caves. After half an hour of paddling around, we made our way back to the dock in time to board the big boat again and go around the bay to a cave system that has been altered to hike through. The cave system is dressed with bright coloured lights that were put in to help show the contrast of the many layers of stalagmites and stalactites. One addition included a fountain in an existing pool. It was fun, beautiful, interesting, and no extraneous training was required to visit. But the complaint I heard most was it “looked like Ariels grotto at Disney world”, a bit cartoonish, and not authentic. In my opinion, it was an amazing day trip for less than $50. I would recommend it.

 

Da Nang

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After Hanoi, we travelled to Da Nang. Da Nang has a slower pace than either Hanoi or Ho Chi Minh City /Saigon. With a beautiful river walk that exhibits local sculptures in a permanent art display, and the “dragon” bridge that shoots fire out of its mouth on the weekends, Da Nang is an amazing modern city to visit.

 

Hue

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A day trip from Da Nang can land you in Hue (pronounced “way”), a wonderfully small tourist town. If you ever thought about getting something tailor made, this is the place to do it. The town is seaside, so the local specialty is oysters, and the seafood in the area is fresh from the boat.

After Da Nang, the field school was over. It was time to part ways with most of our classmates. My two companions and I went south to Saigon where we started our tour through the south of South East Asia with GAdventures.

 

Rematch

A few weeks ago, after buying my new Ukulele, I was riding back to my apartment when ‘lo and behold, two boys were duning it out in a street soccer match. I stopped my bike and decided to join in the scrimmage. Two versus one was a pretty even match – They sent me running, but my legs are longer. After a while of this, I decided to head out since my 20-something self gets tired a little more quickly than a 10 year old.

Today, after a run around the small town, I am doing my cool down walk back when I see three of them. Two soccer balls buzzing and soaring around them. They were playing at that same intersection that we played at the last time, and the same one that I go through to get home. They saw me a block away, and the waving and excitement started. The matched started with Three-on-one, but the girl who was sitting of to the side watching joined in almost right away, evening the teams to girls versus boys, two versus three. Paired with a 9 year old Japanese Mia Hamm, she and I were passing and shooting. The mother came out and saw me bounding after a couple run away balls, and where I expected to see worry and suspicion of a strange person playing with her children, I saw amusement.

Playing outside until the streetlights come on, not worrying about your children playing a game in the street with a complete stranger, stopping your game for the occasional passing car. I don’t know if its that we lost our trust in people as a society, or if society has given America something not to trust. I remember running over to my friends house when I was 6, my sister, then 8, came with me to make sure I got across the street safe. Then when I was living on the boat, we were allowed to play until the dock-lights came on. So living in an area where I don’t lock my bike and its still there when I come back, leave my shopping in my bike basket and its untouched, I have developed a new faith in humanity. For just a moment I got to be 10 again, playing soccer where we grab the ball and yell “CAR!” when we spot a passing vehicle. Where the only thing that was different was that I was sent in to retrieve the ball from under a parked car since my arms and legs were longer. And when the sun set, I was waved off and serenaded with “Arigato” and, from my mini-Mia-Hamm, a surprising ‘Thank you’. THESE are the moments that I travel for.

We’ve All Got Motive

A couple months ago, I was sitting in the top bunk of my hostel, bundled under blankets and half hanging off the bed to chat with my English roommate. We noticed something; we are about the same age, and we are part of a small demographic of backpackers. Not only that, there seemed to be a correlation between age, and why you were traveling. Granted, those age lines could blur, such as having a ‘gap year’ before you start University, or after University, and before grad school or the dreaded real world.  In this episode of CSI: Travel, here are ‘6 Motivators’ that we came up with:

THE JOB SEEKER:

AGE: Late Teens to Late 20’s
REASON FOR TRAVEL: Usually on a Working Holiday trying to get some money together while they travel. Usually “saving” for something, or getting career experience abroad.

THE UNI STUDENT:

AGE: Early to mid 20’s
REASON FOR TRAVEL: Study Abroad, Learning a specific topic, or on a short travel stint between semesters.

ABANDON ALL:

AGE: Early to late 20’s
REASON FOR TRAVEL: Something went south back home (lost job, family member passed away.) On several occasion’s its been the ex caught with the best friend, where they go off to build/rebuild their life without the insignificant other.

PARTNER:

AGE: Mid to late 20’s
REASON FOR TRAVEL: Along for the ride! Significant other/family member/best friend planed the trip and wanted a travel companion.

SOUL SEARCHING:

AGE: All ages
REASON FOR TRAVEL: To discover something. They set out with no goal or destination, but want to explore who they really are, and search for truth (either on a personal or spiritual level.)

GOAL SETTER:

AGE: All ages
REASON FOR TRAVEL: Its been a lifelong dream to [fill in your deepest world travel desire here]. Be it see animals on safari in Africa, climb the Sydney harbour bridge, or learn to make pasta from an Italian chef in Italy, there is a reason you are in the area and a direct goal you are trying to achieve.

I would like to give a shout out to Oli, who spent an afternoon with me bouncing the ideas back and forth.

How I do it: More backpacking tips

I’m thinking back to this time last year, when I was packing up my apartment and how excited I was to be one step closer to my adventurous life. I’m not wealthy, didn’t have much in the way to sell, and was giving away my furniture just to get it out before my move out deadline. Yeah, I had enough to get started on the trip, but little idea what the whole trip would ultimately entail. Ive had my plans crumble underneath me, and long arranged plans work out beautifully. What made one work and the other collapse? Not the wildest idea, but that’s the beauty of it. Whether I have plans work out so perfectly or fall apart horribly, I have had people in my life that have shared that with. This last year I have seen people from my past that I didn’t know if I was going to see again, some introduced me more amazing people, others have offered closure and I probably wont see them again. But this is where I offer my first Grand Adventure Words of Advice;

What goes around comes around.

Be it Karma, ‘do unto others’, or any other dogma of the same rule, the world is a small place. I have seen first hand karma come back to people who have wronged (and oh, does it taste so sweet. Face it, you know someone you would love karma to come back to.) I’ve also witnessed the good, friends meeting again for the first time in years (and have experienced this a few times), or someone housing me finds money on the ground. (personally, I find this as the universe keeping everything in balance.)

Keep your friends close, and your enemies as far away as you can.

This doesn’t always have to be in the physical sense. No matter where you are, or how far or close someone is, if they do nothing but bring you down, keep them out of your life. This may sound like a big I-never-want-to-speak-to-you-again drama, but its really a lot simpler than you would imagine. Simply live your life. Find the beauty in the people you meet along the way, and if they are really your friend, no amount of time and space will change that. They are the ones that start the Facebook conversation with “where are you now?” and “How do you like it in…?” and “I’m so jealous!”, even after those few months that you havn’t been talking (which really just feels like a few days at most) you pick up right were you left off. They are the ones I offer the couch to crash on in Colorado, or arrange for a drink the next time we meet up (even though neither of us know when or where that may be.) This may not be everyone you meet, but the ones who stick are the ones who count.

There is a difference between packing light and packing efficiently.

I don’t mean the rolling clothes and shoving undies in shoes, (which believe me, it really does save space.) I am talking about having what you need more than what you want. I have gone through my bags a couple times now sending home boxes of clothes and devices that I discovered I really didn’t need. With wither approaching here in the southern hemisphere, there really is only so much I am willing to part with, but find that the concept of ‘light layers’ is the way to go. Sub-note: Forgo the souvenirs. It is way better for you to get a camera, and learn how to get good photos. I have seen some amazing GoPro videos, and have an olypus tough which is the most durable little camera. (Ive taken it exploring in caves, to the great barrier reef, and dropped it off a cliff in Ireland. It still goes strong) I also shoot with a DSLR Nikon, but this is usually the EXPENSIVE option. I’ve had a love of photography since I was 13, and decided it was worth it to me. (Coming soon, excerpt from my travel photography how-to book I am writing.)

There will be days you stress out. Ride them out.

Almost every backpacker I have met has had at least one day when they freak out. Be it strapped on cash, flight cancelled, something stolen, its happened before. Before calling your trip a bust because something bad has happened, learn to deal with it. it may be harsh, but its true. To this day I winge about my jean jacket being stolen, and that was my first week in the hostel during this trip. I’ve had other things nicked along the way, but I will never forget that first thing or that first time something bad happened while backpacking. Ask any backpacker when they were in a sticky situation. There is a good chance that they remember.  Add that experience to your ‘stories-to-tell-at-the-bar’ list, and move on. And from this I use a phrase my mum taught me from a young age “If everything always worked out, then we wouldn’t have adventures.”

 

Next time: The people you meet: An introduction to a correlation between ages and the reasons they travel.

 

A month and a few places later…

I am nearing the end of my year visa (with still no option for Americans to extend for another year) and am in the throws of trying to find sure footing for the next step in my journey.

Over the last month I have had an onslaught of adventures, from finding how to live on no money in Brisbane, to having a job that pays for all travel and accommodation, to taking photos of surfers for a magazine/website, to finding my strengths as well as my weaknesses in the grand scheme of backpacking. (You know, like that one jacket I have no room for in my suitcase, but I love it too much to send home… Which may have been a good thing since winter is coming.)

At the moment, I’m in a little town of NSW called Armidale, in an area dubbed “New England”. The cool air and smell of decaying leaves that are the staple of my autumn in Colorado leave me just a little homesick for my rugged Rocky Mountains. The college town with bookshops and coffee shops sprinkled about bring me back to my university days. The people I meet constantly reminding me of the 6 degrees of separation, and how when you travel, you’re never really ‘solo’.

As a preview of the “next step”, I am getting my TEFL certificate (teaching English as a foreign language) and will get back into my niche of teaching and academia, but in a way that will let me work and travel the globe.

Surf, Sand and the Bogan Safari

Leaving my last home and job, I had the plans already made; staying for two weeks on the coast to watch the Quicksilver and Roxy Pros. Bus ticket in hand, My friends mother and one of the kindest people you could ever meet, Mama G, dropped me at the bus station for the next lag of my journey.

Instantly, the bus driver and I start chatting and stories, jokes, and observations on society swap hands. Everything from his desires to go to the rocky mountains, to the quarky ‘Bush Tucker Man’ tv show from the ’90’s. (For those that watch Bear Grylls, This is much better, and HIGHLY recommended as an actual form of survival knowledge if ever lost in the outback.) As we turnd into small towns, we started playing “spot the Bogan”, which is similar to Jeff Foxworthy’s ‘you may be a redneck if’. This ranged from the massive southern cross tatoos, to the car that replaced the anteni with a bent wire coat hanger. Dont believe me?

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When I made it to the coast, the sound of the ocean, the smell of salt, and the powder sand welcomed me back. I arrived on the second day of the competition, which meant that i could wake up SUPER early the next day to watch all the surfers before the crowds.

Now, those who know me know that I suck at surfing. I love the sport, even get up on the board on occasion. A long board. Rarely. (As opposed to my siblings that I watch in awe as they turn circles around me.) I find it such a graceful sport, and the better the surfers the easier it is to get AMAZING shots.

With my first day being the first day of the Roxy pro, the waves looked wonderful in an endless-summer type consistent roll.  Breaking off snapper rocks, the wave would roll and glide sideways to the beach, which makes watching the event a treat.

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(more photos at flickr.com/photos/kikilathrop)

After a couple days of these wonderful breaks, they started to fade, forcing the ASP to call lay days. rather than sit on the beach and work on my sunburn, I spent some time walking around the city, eating at the take-away shop, and meeting people in the hostel.

on a daily check into the ASP site, the message comes up “come on down to snapper rocks for a free Jimmy Buffett concert”. Lets see; I grew up on a boat, surfing sun sand and salt run in my family and veins. I know Jimmy Buffett songs enough to sing Margaritaville in its entirety to the Belgium girl in my room. I grabbed my camera, lenses, and dashed to the bus, arriving in time to sit about 15 ft (5m) from the stage. In addition to Jimmy, Kelly Slater and Stephanie Gilmore got up to do duets with them. Lets just say, if they want to retire from surfing, music would be a viable option for them.

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My luck is amazing! =)